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Proposed United Church of New Westminister
Covenant
To serve God's plans God makes covenants. God covenanted with Noah
saying there would never be another great flood. A covenant was
made with the Jews to make them God's chosen people. And through
Christ, God expanded that covenant to include us as adopted children.
As a community we have been using the New Church Development (NCD)
model. One key sign of healthy church growth is "Loving Relationships".
This is a good goal because Christ commands us to "love one
another, as he has loved us."
We will:
Get to know each other & God better by attending worship
regularly and actively participating in the life of the congregation.
Pray daily for God's guidance and blessing of the congregation.
Commit a percentage of our time, talents and money to the
church.
Show interest in each other's well-being through genuine
enquiry & acts of loving kindness.
Affirm and thank each other for our particular successes,
gifts and ministries.
Avoid hurtful or demeaning words or actions. Apologise quickly
if our words or behaviour intentionally or unintentionally hurt
another.
Speak directly to the one who has hurt or offended us (except
where unsafe to do so**).
Encourage others to communicate directly with those who have
offended them. (except where unsafe to do so**).
Focus on solutions to problems rather than questioning each
other's character, faith, or motives.
Work on solving problems, rather than avoiding them or rushing
to incomplete solutions.
Speak for only ourselves & avoid speaking on behalf of
anonymous other(s)
At meetings we will:
Seek to create a positive and unifying atmosphere.
Avoid interrupting; speaking off-topic; speaking out of turn;
speaking at length; or speaking more than our share.
Speak loudly and clearly enough for all to hear and understand.
Take time when necessary for moments of silence to think,
pray, & reflect.
Encourage everyone to participate in meetings.
Support the outcome of a meeting, even if our point of view
did not `win' - (If however, this is a matter of conscience, be
open and honest about how we will constructively proceed in sharing
our disagreement.)
Attend faithfully; be on time; give advanced notice of absence
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Exhibit honesty by expressing the same opinions at meetings
as we do outside of meetings.
*** Council is working on an abuse policy
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